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It’s been almost three years of full-time RVing and one thing remains very clear: this lifestyle is not for everyone.
First things first, I’m very biased when it comes to this subject. I tend to air on the side of the over optimistic guy who thinks everyone should quit their jobs, buy an RV and travel the country. However, the practical side of me knows this lifestyle isn’t for everyone.
So, how do you know if full-time RVing is right for you?
It depends on a number of factors. Is this your retirement? Are you taking your family on an 18 month trip around the US? Are you ditching your 9-5 to become an RV entrepreneur? All of these situations warrant a different answer. That being said, the best advice I can provide is from my own experience for why we chose full-time RVing.
We chose to live in an RV (at first) as a temporary means of transportation while traveling to all 50 states. We then decided to keep living in an RV to pay off a bunch of student debt. Then, after paying off a bunch of debt we decided to keep full-time RVing because loved the lifestyle.
For us, it wasn’t really the upfront choice of “whether or not full-time RVing is right for us?”. It was more of an experiment that slowly grew into a lifestyle. We didn’t buy our first RV and think it was going to become something we blogged about and advocated for, it was simply a means to an end.
All this aside, I came up with a few questions to consider before jumping into the full-time RV lifestyle.
How to Know if Full-Time RVing is Right for You
1. Can you get by with less?
This one is pretty obvious, but all RVs have a limited amount of space available. If you’re someone who is overly attached to their things, this lifestyle may be tough.
One way we’ve seen people combat this issue is to place their things in storage for a year to see if they miss them while they are gone (spoiler: most of the time they don’t).
Side note: I think paying tons of money for a storage facility to hold extra stuff is not a smart financial or life decision. A few people I know have found that it’s more expensive to store furniture and personal items during their travels than it is to buy new things when transitioning back into a sticks-n-bricks.
I’ve seen people jump into full-time RVing and still continue to buy things like they did when they were in a house. It’s simple physics, but soon they reach capacity for how much they can fit in their RV. Again, full-time RVing might not be the best fit for you, if you can’t get by with less.
After all, the best part of full-time RVing is learning to value experiences over stuff.
2. Can you deal with uncertainty?
There can be a lot of uncertainty while full-time RVing.
Half the time we don’t know where we will be in two weeks (or two days). Each time we haul our RV through the mountains or down a dirt road, there’s a chance we could slowly crawl to a permanent stop (happened once in our old RV).
I think the biggest source of uncertainty is with the RV itself. RVs constantly need work, just like a house. If you find an unbearable amount of stress in these situations–like earlier this summer when both of our slides stopped working at the same time–RVing may not be a great fit for you. I’ve been known to throw a stress fit every now and then when our RV doesn’t obey, but learning to take these problems in stride is key.
In fact, full-time RVing has really helped me find more gratitude in road trips. The pre-RV version of Heath 100% believed he would always make it safely to his destination. Post-RV version of Heath fully expects for something bad to happen along the way (i.e engine malfunction, shattered brakes, insert-disaster-here). This mindset of anticipating disaster has helped me cope with disaster when it comes our way. On travel days where we conveniently make it to our destination, I feel gratitude for a safe trip. If you can’t handle the stress and uncertainty of travel, fulltiming may not be right for you.
3. Do you love adventure?
Full-time RVing has been a constant source of adventure in our lives. We’ve driven the road to Alaska, camped along the Pacific Coast Highway, and watched the leaves turn in the north east. We’ve also camped in strangers’ driveways, random farms, parking lots and beautiful national parks all over the country.
If you love adventure, being outside your comfort zone, and constantly seeing new places, I think you’ll love full-time RVing.
4. Does everyone in your family also want to go full-time?
Alyssa and I both wanted to hit the road and travel. We both had a goal of visiting all 50 states and were excited about the idea of making it happen. We had no idea that we’d end up buying an RV, but that’s what worked best for our situation. Knowing it was our best option for sustainable travel, we agreed to jump into #RVlife.
I couldn’t imagine if I had to drag her along (or vice versa), but I know it’s a common worry for wannabe travelers. If you spouse is dead-set against living in an RV, then this type of travel might not be right for you. If you or your spouse are uncertain about RVing, try renting an RV and taking it on a trial run to see if you like the lifestyle and can handle the small space together.
5. Do you appreciate nature and beautiful places?
This is a given, but some of our favorite moments have been camping and exploring national parks. Parking our RV on national forest land and going for a hike in the Tetons is probably my perfect day.
Full-time RVing provides more access to national parks and beautiful places than just about any lifestyle. Living in an RV, you can explore these areas for longer periods of time and experience them in a more natural setting than if you were staying in a hotel or AirBnB.
6. Can you get along (or willing to try and get along) with your significant other while in an RV?
“I could never live in that small of space with anyone, not even my spouse.” <– something we’ve heard 4,523,125 times since we started full-time RVing.
After getting over how depressing this statement was, we realized it’s a real issue for many couples. Alyssa and I work together and are in each other’s presence for 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year. That being said, we actually like spending time with each other. If you’re hesitant about spending that much time with your spouse, full-time RVing might not be the best option for you.
In our experience, RVing has 100% brought us closer together. Granted, we’ve been living in an RV for the entire duration of our marriage, so it’s all we know. But I feel being in such close quarters has given us a solid foundation to our marriage in so many ways. When we go through RV breakdowns or trials, we face them together. When I eat ice cream (and am lactose intolerant), we face the results together (sorry, babe).
Full-time RVing also means being around your significant other full-time.
7. Are you financially able to pull it off?
Gas is expensive, especially when you’re getting a whopping 7 mpg (yes, it’s painful to even say out loud).
Our first year on the road, we traveled to all 50 states and spent $6,000 in gas alone (see rest of our expenses from that road trip here). Being able to financially cover the lifestyle removes a ton of burden and allows you to enjoy your travels.
In the beginning, we hustled to keep our expenses around $2,000/month so we could continue traveling. Over time, we’ve allowed our expenses to grow a little as we’ve found ways to make more money on the road.
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To get really practical, most families and couples we’ve spoken with have had at least $10,000 saved before taking off for a road trip of six months or longer. This all depends on your lifestyle and monthly spending, but $10,000 is a number I’ve heard come up many times as the baseline when it comes to full-time RVing for an extended period of time.
Essentially, these are surface level questions and won’t be 100% indicative of whether or not full-time RVing is right for you. For instance, when Alyssa and I first met, she wasn’t great with uncertainty in her life. She valued plans, details, and a direct course of action. Over time, she’s adapted to the RV lifestyle and has embraced more of the flexibility.
Another example is that neither Alyssa or I grew up camping. In fact, we still aren’t super outdoorsy. In almost three years of RVing we’ve only slept in a tent one time while on a glacier in Alaska (and it was miserable). Yet, we still love the RV lifestyle.
It’s fully possible that your answers to the questions above point toward full-time RVing not being right for you…but you may still love it.
If you really want to know if full-time RVing is right for you, my best advice is to simply try it out. Rent out an RV through a peer-to-peer RV rental service like RVShare or Outdoorsy. Go on a two week cross-country trip and pretend like you’re doing it full-time. Obviously this will just be a test run, but it’s the only real way to see if you have a draw towards full-time RVing.
This is such a great article! We asked ourselves these questions before we got on the road as well. I think it’s important that you mentioned being on the same page with the rest of your family. My boyfriend and I are both loving this lifestyle and try our hardest to make it work. If one of us wasn’t on board, it wouldn’t happen. Actually, before we started our journey, we watched your trailer for Hourly America. There’s a scene where you and Alyssa hug and say something like “we’ll make it through this, it’ll be ok”. This has been us multiple times and we’ve only been full-timing for a few months now! If it wasn’t for the constant support, there’s no way we could do it. That doesn’t mean we don’t bicker and get on each others nerves… but we never let it linger too long.
However, I have to disagree with you a little bit on visiting cities, depending on your RV size and tow car availability. Before we got a tow car, we very rarely visited cities, or we stayed in RV parks close to public transit. But now that we have a tow car, we can camp 10-30 miles away from a city center and venture in whenever we want. We’re definitely more city people and we love seeing new cities. Part of our reason for full-timing is trying to figure out where we’d like plant roots someday, and we know that will be in some proximity to a city. So if you’re full-timing in a van or have a tow car, cities are totally fair game…. mostly. City RV parks tend to be more expensive and… dank… but for us it’s a compromise we’re willing to make fairly often. But you are totally right that sometimes the best days are boondocking in the wilderness, going hiking, and coming home to your comfortable, usually warm and dry RV!
Really hit the nail on the head here 🙂 even though we’re on the road, it was nice to read this and remind ourselves of why we are doing this crazy thing.
haha we’ve definitely had our fair share of “oh crap” moments. Yes, RVing in the city is always stressful for me and I prefer being out in nature. However, now that we have a tow car I’m 100% inclined to agree with you. I prefer to park outside the city and drive in VS try to ever bring our rig into the city. 🙂 Hope you guys are having an awesome time on your adventure and would love to meet up on the road one day!
Great article, Heath. I appreciate your openness and all you and Alyssa do. Someday I’d definitely like to try out a “trial run” and experience a bit of that life. Thanks for sharing!
Hey Kyle! Thanks so much for reading man! Definitely should make a trial trip… have you ever stayed in an RV at all?
I’ve only stayed one night in an RV, and my wife hasn’t ever. Because we already do a lot of camping/backpacking I think I could convince her to try a 2-4 week trip. Do you already have some posts about doing a trial trip? (If you don’t, that might make a good extended blog post, podcast, or even a simple eCourse…)
This is awesome! I am planning to begin full timing in a few years (I am currently saving money as I want to purchase my RV with cash). I’ve been working from home for around 4 years now and I’ll be traveling with my children. My marketing job allows us to work anywhere, even overseas, so I see this as a blessing…an opportunity to enjoy life NOW opposed to waiting until I retire or have a set vacation time to travel.
I first came across you all after reading about if apartment living was cheaper than RV living as at the time, I was considering that as a factor. I was living in Seattle paying $1,600 for a 1bd apt and that was just for rent alone, excluding bills. After 2 years of paying nearly $40k in just rent alone and seeing how that could have been used to pay back student loans, savings, etc. I knew that there had to be another way to travel and be more conscious with my spending. Besides, I don’t get to keep the apartment…with an RV, it’ll be my HOME 😀
I’m 26 and once I finished college, I began working from home which prompted the idea of relocating. So far, I’ve lived in 4 different states (from 2013 to present, including my out of state college and going back to my hometown in the same year). Seeing how the cost of living widely varies between cities/states, I began to think, “How can I do this in a way were I am not only able to travel, but I can also save and pay down my student loan debt?” — that alone is what prompted me to visit your website and I fell in LOVE with RVing! 🙂
I’ve stayed in RVs before when I was younger as my grandmother has a timeshare at a resort back in my home state, but I’ve never lived in one. Since discussing the idea with my family and a few of my friends, some are happy with my decision while some are opposed to it because “Who wants to live in such small quarters?” and “You will need space away from your kids eventually.” However, what some people won’t understand is that I enjoy my simple and minimalist lifestyle. I have a nice sized 650 sq ft apartment and it still feels huge because I don’t need to fill every inch to make me feel accomplished or happy. I’ve been co sleeping with my children which will be around 3 and 5 years old before I transition to RVing full time and I love it. I love spending time with my children and vice versa. I figured that we only have 1 life and at any time no matter what age we are, anything can happen whether it’s death, life changing injuries, etc. so I appreciate the time I am given and will continue to do so. I also home school and always wanted to incorporate interactive learning while traveling. So far, I’ve been to 28 states and plan to say and know that I’ve visited all 50 states by the time I turn 30. If in the event that my children do not want to homeschool and/or travel, I will respect their decision, but for now, I want them to actually see historic sites, meet different people from various backgrounds, learn new languages, etc.
I believe that learning and experience goes beyond school.
Yes, this may be an “non-traditional” lifestyle that I want and I know that we may be young, but we only have this time because who’s to say tomorrow will be here for us? Who’s to say even the next 5 minutes will be granted to us? So I said I wanted to explore opposed to going with the idea of following a strict traditional lifestyle lifestyle (finish school, get married, by a house, have kids, work, retire, die). After leaving my marriage due to DV, I know that sometimes the “ideals” don’t always work as planned which is why you’re 2nd point regarding uncertainty is extremely important. We can plan things, but must also be ready for change. I expect for there to be both a good and a bad outcome…this helps me accept what does come. 🙂
As you all stated in another post that I can remember, I also don’t want to buy a house. As previously stated, I am currently trying to save and then pay off debt (BTW, I love your student loan repayment plan) and I personally don’t want to add a mortgage and/or car loan ON TOP of the $38K that I owe haha I want to live a debt free life and not worry about phone calls or unnecessary stress regarding debt. I don’t judge if that’s what someone else may want. I just don’t want to live that way.
I’m sorry for the long post! I did have 1 quick question if you don’t mind (I’m still new to all of this and still new to your blog) but I wanted to know if you all have a toad or if you drive your motorhome to grocery stores, malls, etc? When I moved to Seattle, I sold my car and luckily, my apartment was in front of the grocery store and light rail so I didn’t have a “need” for a car (plus, I didn’t want to pay an additional $150/mo to park in my apartment building and I work from home LOL) but I have been considering either purchasing an motorhome (Class C) or a TT. I’m not sure if I’d need one with a motorhome, but I also don’t know how much it’ll cost to pay for a good tow vehicle to pull an TT. I am trying to weigh those out right now. I’ve seen a 2011 bunkhouse Class C for $39K on RVTrader and with estimating that I may have to spend around the same for a TT and a tow vehicle that is strong enough, I am leaning more towards a motorhome. I just don’t want to have to pay for a car PLUS a motorhome, but wanted to know how people get around if they just owned a motorhome.
Thank you! 🙂
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